Friday, September 15, 2023

Those small little moments




Fast forward 2023, these video still lingering in my mind.
Of course they are only for fun but in real life we do lost in translation more than we actually notice. 

Humans communicate and express themselves in all sorts of way, it can be
- verbally
- texting (emoji, gif, sticker, memes, etc) 
- facial expression
- body language
- music, art 
- others  

However no matter 
how persuasive is a speech during election campaign,
how beautifully a poem is written, 
how insightful is advice from a teacher,
People only choose to believe what they want to believe.

In a world where we can have a virtual meeting anytime, anywhere,
Just because these tools exist does not necessary make us a better & effective communicator.

That is why with different kind of people, at different kind of place, at a different time,
Added with a different kind of social settings and culture,
We can feel and behave almost like a completely different person. 

When humans communicate and express, 
Every person is unique and will developed their own style,
How did they develop, I guess it all comes back to their little past.
Those small little moments is all the difference that it makes.

The love and tender from a mother, 
Those daily routine going back and forth to classes,
The encouragement and praises from a boss,
The innocent and pure joy from a kid.

On the other hand, those small little moments can also be
When respect, good conduct & empathy are in steep decline,
When blaming, hating, back biting and cursing become a norm,
When family and good friends just don't care anymore,
And the list goes on...

But remember we can always make a difference,
So let us always try to be kind and be those positive small little moments in other peoples life.

Salam & Selamat Hari Malaysia
2023.9.16

"And the servants of the Beneficent Allah are they who walk on the earth in humbleness, and when the ignorant address them, they say' Peace." (25:63)

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

how long, how many?

how many roads must a man walk down
before u can call him a man?

how many rocks must a TBM bored
before it reach 44km?

Granite, granite and granite
humid, warm, dusty, noise, water
>1km overburden
fault, lineation, soft rock, thin overburden

God willing, everything will be alright
oh, even though u're a Totally Boring Machine (TBM)
but the truth is, you're so COOL..

Monday, May 16, 2011

5 before 5

Yesterday i received a shock news about an ex-college mate,
He suffered a disease (infection) and just like that.. he return to the Creator..
He is 24 years old.. Al-Fatihah to u Syafiq..

Never said that we are too young to die,
To Allah we belong and to Him we shall return,
and Allah knows best

5 before 5:
your youth before your old age,
your health before your sickness,
your wealth before your poverty,
your free-time before your preoccupation,
your life before your death.

(p/s: i'm now a happy and proud non smoker, thank you Allah :) )

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Not Anymore

Let me be another person to write about quiting smoking,
I know it's boring, i know it's typical, but it's very important to "us",
I've relapse several times, and it all happened because i kept it to myself,
I didn't make research, i didn't prepare enough, and my will to quit was not strong,

Before last month:
I think I enjoy smoking,
I think cigarette is my best friend,
I think smoking can calm myself,
I think....
but the truth is, i continue to smoke because i'm scared about 1 thing,
I'm scared and can't bear the withdrawal symptoms,
and so i'm trapped in Law of Addiction,
and it repeated again, again and again

And so i've decided i will stop feeding the nicotine monster inside me,
I will endure this withdrawal symptoms for the last time ever,
It will be bloody hard but IT CAN BE DONE,
Some of my friends already quit and for me they are superman,
(I want to be a superman too)

Cigarette u are not my best friend,
U only destroy me slowly but surely
I can't find any reason anymore
I cant be with u anymore

Ya Allah please forgive me for the wrong i've done,
Man is an imperfect creature and thus shall always wrong..
Ya Allah please guide me, ya Allah please help me..


"You think you love to smoke and you think it is so important to your happiness, but when you quit (and I know you will), you will find out that all that happiness associated with smoking is a lie. It’s a cheap carnival trick. It is nothing more than smoke and mirrors."-credit to Lesly

Saturday, March 6, 2010

GNH

a.k.a gross national happiness,
are u happy?


saturday night fever, but obviously not at redlight district


how do we look?



my everything

Thursday, January 21, 2010

where a good man goes

uhuk uhuk
i dont know how long it's been
but it feels like months
i cant bear this pain no more

last 2 week i was in ICU
the doctor said i'm inches away from death
there is cure but it's very very expensive
because i'm poor and dont have no personal insurance
they dont want to treat me
yes, money money money
good deeds come second

luckily a hot lady come to the rescue
she's willing to sponsored my operation
God bless her
what a beautiful heart and a wonderful mind she has

and finally the crooked doctor saved me
he gave me lots of steroid,
add a bigger brain and recover my old memories

yes i'm back, healthy and and never feel better
ah tong~ ah tong~ ah tong~
be more responsible to your Acer!!


-(tajok xde kene mngene langsong)-



Tuesday, December 1, 2009

no wonder

it's getting late, like other KL-ites i drive like a madman, only this time it's around residential area, then up ahead i saw a bird on the road, look like trying to eat some bread lying on the road, i'm getting close but it still doesnt move, then suddenly- a cat ran out of nowhere, trying to catch the bird, i screamed and there's nothing i can do about it, bamm! i ran over the poor cat with my kancil..

i hold my breath, i look at the back, the cat is still in one piece and running towards a house.. i'm grateful but i still worried it will limping, hai.. that evening when i passed by the same road, i saw the same cat sitting "washing" it's body, look like still in a perfect shape, alhamdulillah.. i can't imagine if i killed somebody's cat, hm, no wonder people said that cat has 9 lives.


-i really miss CK, why do u need to go.......